fears

[lizmuscle]

My biggest fear is not finding a job. I moved back to Illinois to be near my family, and this area is so depressed I am unable to find a job. I don't want to loose my car, the first one I have bought on my own. Im scarred. I going without eating, because that costs money.

[lynda]

charstarhardcore i know you wrote that on june 16 but i just now read it and it made me so sad. i want to reach out and hug you tight. you don't have to be 'good enough' to be loved. you just be yourself. be open and honest with people and they will love you for who you are. if they don't then you don't need them in your life. and maybe someone will and you will love them back for who they are and then you have a foundation for a relationship. unconditional love to you!

[electprogeny]

Jun 27, 2011 22:13:51 GMT -5 lizmuscle said:

My biggest fear is not finding a job. I moved back to Illinois to be near my family, and this area is so depressed I am unable to find a job. I don't want to loose my car, the first one I have bought on my own. Im scarred. I going without eating, because that costs money.

Financial insecurity is one of the worst stresses a person can experience in "normal" life. It really wears a person down very quickly and lasts long term.

If your family cannot help, and there isn't any work - are you able to move someplace where you can make things work? What are your bigger priorities or is being with your family at the top of that list?

[alangley]

I fear everything,I have extreme Anxiety,Panic Disorder and a bunch of other crap,you name I probably fear it,except animals,I do love them.

[daniandtina]

my fear was accidently hurting someone I loved and I killed my son and so my fear became my reality...... I did nothing illegal but its something I will have to face everyday ......

[ciera07]

My fear is being forgotten as well, im completly checked out and i cant sleep or think unless its about this person who makes me happy...... i also fear falling inlove, because you can get your heart ripprd to pices =(.... i have many thing but the top one is thinking i am alone and i can only think of escaping.

[electprogeny]

Jul 5, 2011 1:38:19 GMT -5 alangley said:

I fear everything,I have extreme Anxiety,Panic Disorder and a bunch of other crap,you name I probably fear it,except animals,I do love them.

I also have a great deal of anxiety, and having had a panic attack a few times I have a ridiculous aversion to ever having one again. I think when a lot of fears take over, it can often be more about an actual feeling of lack of control more than a fear of the actual things - which makes sense when you think of the animals... there's not really a time to feel out of control with them.

My question for you would be - what sort of things make you feel strong and in control?

[electprogeny]

Jul 13, 2011 20:40:42 GMT -5 daniandtina said:

my fear was accidently hurting someone I loved and I killed my son and so my fear became my reality...... I did nothing illegal but its something I will have to face everyday ......

I can think of fewer pains more debilitating than the loss of a loved one - and have no way even beginning to comprehend how painful the loss of a child must be... especially if you feel responsible for it. There are so many things I would want to know before saying anything else... so if you are inclined to answer (and no this isn't meant to start a trite response) - do you have a belief in a higher power?

[electprogeny]

Sept 10, 2011 8:13:16 GMT -5 ciera07 said:

My fear is being forgotten as well, im completly checked out and i cant sleep or think unless its about this person who makes me happy...... i also fear falling inlove, because you can get your heart ripprd to pices =(.... i have many thing but the top one is thinking i am alone and i can only think of escaping.

May I ask - in what way do you wish to escape?